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Recently I had a chat with my personal friend pictured below, the internationally respected, best selling author Dr. Joe Rubino. He mentioned that he had made a dramatic discovery that directly relates to anyone’s ability to attract their dream life.

Extensive research has shown that over 85% of us have some degree of Self-Esteem deficit! At first, I was a little skeptical when I heard this Shocking Statistic.

But, sadly, it’s true. Countless case studies support this statistic. The worst part about it is that a deficiency in your self-esteem level is often so subtle that you don’t readily notice it until you thoroughly examine yourself.

Read below to what Dr. Joe Rubino has to say about self-esteem:

Yours in high self-esteem,

Leslie Householder

My friend, Joe Rubino

Dear  Reader,

Over the past 18 years, I have personally coached more than 1000 people to make their lives and businesses work more optimally. My research and coaching experiences have convinced me that diminished Self-Esteem is the #1 cause of not living one’s dream life.

Not having strong self-esteem in every area of your life almost invariably leads to things like:

* Fear of Failure
* Procrastination
* Feeling Unfulfilled
* Being Frustrated or Angry
* Feeling Unloved or Unlovable
* Feeling Nervous or Shy
* Being Indecisive
* And many more uncomfortable feelings that keep you from realizing your full potential and attracting abundance, meaningful relationships, happiness, and fulfillment.

I estimate that at least 85% of the world’s people experience these types of unpleasant feelings due to diminished self-esteem – so there’s a pretty good chance you may too!

The good news is that I created a free 45 minute audio recording called “7 Steps to Soaring Self Esteem” that will explain all about how you can reclaim your self-esteem and live your best life. I’m making it available to you along with a complimentary membership in my Success Club ($129 Value, Yours Free!) just for checking out the work we do to champion self-esteem as part of The Self Esteem System.

You’ll learn more about the book that thousands have called “life-changing” – “The Self-Esteem Book: The Ultimate Guide to Boost the Most Underrated Ingredient for Success and Happiness in Life.” This book shares the proven methodology that I have used over and over again to assist people in improving their lives.

So many have found this book to be truly life-impacting. I believe that you will too!

See for yourself HERE

I have put my 18 years of research, experiences, and insights into this system to explain clearly how anyone can overcome their lacking self-esteem challenges simply and with velocity…to live their best life.

The Self Esteem Book and System will assist you too to:

• Heal your painful past
• Carefully assess your current state of affairs
• Uncover the source of your diminished Self-Esteem
• Find out the #1 Secret to regaining Total Self-Esteem
• Create a vision of a life with No Regrets
• Attract abundance and meaningful relationships
• And much, much more.

I can’t stress enough how important healthy self-esteem is to us all in order to realize our full potential for happiness, fulfillment, and success. This book and The Self-Esteem System upon which it is founded was developed out of my vision to champion at least 20 million people to elevate their self-esteem and be able to live a happier, more successful and abundant life marked by rich relationships, peace of mind, and fulfillment.

I believe it can make a tremendous positive impact on your life as well.

Please check it out and claim your complimentary gifts HERE now.

To Your Magnificence,

Joe

Dr. Joe Rubino
CEO and Founder of The Center for Personal Reinvention

PS. Check out The Self-Esteem System now! You’ll receive my free gift “7 Steps to Soaring Self-Esteem” Audio and Success Club Membership ($129 Value, Yours Free!) Also included is a wonderful 7 part mini-course all on the topic of enhancing your self esteem and increasing your personal power and happiness.

PPS. Don’t become upset when you realize that you could be among the 85% majority who suffer from diminished self-esteem. Thankfully, this program will give you a solid, easy-to-implement formula to become happier, healthier, stronger, and more confident quickly.

Pick up your free gifts now HERE

Then come back here and let me know what you think… thanks! Leslie

When you begin to study the principles of prosperity and the laws of success, it’s natural to conclude that you have to think optimistically at all times in order for the law of perpetual transmutation to bring you the resources you need to accomplish the goal.

But constant optimism isn’t necessary – it actually isn’t really even possible.  Without an emotional dip now and then, you’d never know a good day when you had one.

Even tough times contain benefits.  Families across the world are scaling back on unnecessary purchases and focusing on things that matter most like:

Family, faith, hope…

And if the economy has necessitated this change, then even a bad economy is something to be grateful for.

The world is full of illusions.  Many people are being tested right now to see if they will seek and cling to truth (there is abundance) and make choices that lead them to greater personal freedom, or whether they will let the ‘evidence’ of disaster overwhelm them and lead them to discouragement, and ultimately an even tighter feeling of bondage.

So, with that in mind, how goes YOUR battle?

Everyone goes through periods of discouragement, or there could be no real victory.

Everyone. Even people you look up to.

Even people who are doing well right now.

Discouragement is simply a natural part of the package called LIFE.

But what separates those who conquer the battle from those who are crushed under the weight of it, is just one thing.

The only thing that separates the victor from the vanquished is his or her thoughts in the heat of the battle.

It’s easy to think optimistically when things are going well.

It’s when things are TOUGH beyond belief that the real winners emerge. How do they do it? What do they know that perhaps you don’t know?

Keep reading…

The hardest part is thinking optimistically when things are NOT going well. A person might try, but if there isn’t enough knowledge and understanding to support that optimism, the optimism is fake at best, and can even become destructive at worst.

Don’t let your optimism destroy you.

You can’t just hope and pray that everything will work out. You can’t just affirm it superficially. You need to have the knowledge that gives you REASON to know that everything is going to turn out okay for you. There is a way to know for sure, and it isn’t just from making a decision that you’ll make it so.

The good news is that in hard times like these, for some, the greatest personal victories of all time will be won. No victory will ever be so great as the ones that come out of the most disastrous of conditions. So if you have it REALLY bad right now, you are among the most fortunate – IF – you make your daily decisions based on the knowledge I have to share with you.

If you’re ready to get on top of those bills and begin living the life you and your family were meant to live, order the FTMF program. I’ve got something special I am going to throw in, so keep reading…

“I can’t even describe what an amazing miracle this course has been in my life. Everything has changed and I am a completely different person from when I started this journey in January. I went from a happy, but blah, letting-life-take-me-where-it-will-and-be-happy-with-it person, to a vigorous and excited, let-me-partner-with-God-in-creating-miracles person. My husband is overwhelmingly excited to see this change in me and seriously awesome things are happening. I never would have imagined 8 months ago when I was sitting in my dingy apartment that I would be in a house on an amazing adventure with so many exciting dreams and achievable goals! TAKE THIS COURSE, it will change your life. I tell everyone that I can about it. Thank you Leslie and Trevan!” Katiev16

There is no greater gift you can give your family than the gift of HOPE. It begins with you.

You’ve got to take the lead on this and learn to live according to the principles so you can show your family how.

You might be the only person you know who is interested in this information. Don’t wait for anyone else to make the decision for you – you may be your family’s only hope.

There’s a reason why YOU are the one who has been drawn to this material – the one who bothered reading this message – and it could be because your nature is the most inclined to naturally influencing those around you for good by your example. Let them see how it changes your life.

You don’t even have to say a word – they’ll see it, they’ll sense it, and they’ll naturally become curious and hungry to discover your new found wisdom and knack for profiting from your setbacks.

What is the FTMF program?

The Family Time & Money Freedom (FTMF) program is a 12-week course that walks you step-by-step through two very important phases. In the first phase, I help you experience documentable success with an inconsequential goal – something that creates no inner conflict with old paradigms. This phase gives you the confidence to set a second goal – a bigger one – the kind that right now might blow your mind. Then during phase 2, I help you choose that bigger goal and then systematically help you achieve it.

Together, we build the neuro-pathways you need to have confidence and a pattern for accomplishing every goal you set for the rest of your life. This is why so many of our students get the FTMF program and go through it more than once, because after achieving their first big goal, they’re excited to see it work again for an even bigger goal.

The process doesn’t change – you simply use it time and again for increasingly difficult objectives. You’ll be a different person the next time through, and have a completely different experience with it. You’ll notice ideas and concepts in the material that you didn’t notice the first time through, because frankly, you weren’t ready for it.

This is how it is with everyone. We all notice and absorb the principles we’re ready to learn, only when we’re ready to learn them.

(Thank heavens for that, because if it all was understandable the first time around, you’d be overwhelmed. Your mind would shut down because physically you could not handle it all in one flood of enlightenment. Do you know what I mean? Have you ever been so enlightened that you get physically drained and need to sleep?)

Anyway, think about giving your family the gift of HOPE right now. I don’t mean: buy THEM the FTMF program, although I wouldn’t discourage that; but if YOU are the one who is hungry for the information, buy it for YOU, and SHOW them your transformation.

Inspire them by your example.

Hope is contagious, and as your hope grows, theirs will, too.

Order this week and you’ll get one free membership in the School of Life Mastery for one year ($359 value) at no additional charge.

Remember, you’ll have the online version available to you immediately – so you can get started even before your box arrives in the mail.

When money is tight, you can either stretch it as far as it will go and hope it doesn’t run out, or you can invest it in learning how to multiply the little resources you may have left.

Have faith in yourself. You have everything you need to win this battle.

When you can’t rely on anything or anyone else to give you what you need, rely on PRINCIPLES. You’ll feel a greater sense of peace immediately as you immerse yourself in understanding what they are and how they really work.

When you live according to the laws, you naturally enjoy greater confidence and clearer guidance on what your next step needs to be. Peace of mind is within your reach.

Let me help you find it.

All the best,

Leslie Householder

As you may know, our online School of Life Mastery was originally expected to open last summer…

…And it STILL isn’t open.  Here’s why:

I created the curriculum and have been managing additions to it, while my husband (who, in his previous life worked in the IT department for Universal Studios) has been heading up the site structure and development.

Many times, over the past six months, the developers asked how certain pieces should be handled; and not only did I answer with vague generalities; but (to everyone’s dismay), I also quite often changed my mind.

Even worse, sometimes my answer was, “Oh, whatever you think is best.”

Well, six months later – having spent tens of thousands of dollars more than expected – we are looking back on this project, and see that we’re still not ready to open because our developers have been required to work on a moving target.

Putting the original June 2009 date to the goal was ineffective, because the target had not been clearly and perfectly identified.

During those months since June, the site became intricately developed; but every time we thought it was nearly done, we’d see that it wasn’t quite right and needed to be reworked.

My problem was that I didn’t know well enough – right from the beginning – what I wanted.  I didn’t know how it SHOULD be.  All I had was a general idea; and I guess I just took it for granted that the developers would just figure it all out for me.

(I probably assumed they could just read my mind and see the vision I had without my spelling it out in detail.)

Ultimately, after going in circles one too many times, the developers finally INSISTED we give them a fully-developed ’spec’.

A “spec” is a document that specifies in absolute detail, every single aspect of what the site needs to be able to do, and precisely how it’s supposed to look and behave under every possible user action.  It’s the blueprint for the website.

After spending more than a year creating the curriculum, I was frustrated that I’d have to help create a ’spec’.  I wanted to say, “I already created the materials; can’t you all just figure it out?”

But with only vague directions, and different perceptions and approaches between the developers, problems kept cropping up.  Beta testers were losing data, new registrants were finding themselves trapped in frustrating loops, and just this week we finally realized that the whole system had been built in the wrong environment, causing many of the problems.

So here’s the point of my confession.  We’ve been teaching people for years the importance of putting goals in writing, with detail.

And to be honest, I have successfully achieved many goals without going to the trouble.  It’s tedious work to put it in writing, and I don’t enjoy taking the time.  But this experience taught me how much more quickly, and more smoothly (and less expensively) goals can be achieved if you do take the time to create a ’spec’.

There’s no question we’ll get the school opened eventually.  We’ll muscle it through, one way or another; but we’ll be more efficient, and our developers will be better utilized if we don’t leave so many variables up to chance.

So what about you and your goals?

• Are you vague, or are you perfectly clear about what you’re pursuing right now?
• Do you change your mind often?
• Do you sit back undecided and say, “Oh, whatever is best“?

The truth is, that what’s best is that you choose excellence.  Excellence doesn’t happen TO YOU.  You’ve got to step forward and initiate the change you keep wishing for.  Life provides hardships and challenges so that you’ll wake up and start doing the uncomfortable things that help you become your best self.  That’s why the hardships are a gift.  The painful site delays and setbacks have been a gift, to teach us this important lesson.

So, if you care about the outcome of your goal, and if you care about how quickly and inexpensively it is realized, then take  responsibility for your life and write a ’spec’.  Write your goals in detail, as though you were describing exactly how the finished project (your life) will look when it’s done.

Imagine you have a ‘developer’ somewhere who is busily working for you, arranging the right people and opportunities for every one of your objectives.  But every time you change your mind, he has to drop everything and start all over.  If you’re unclear, then even if you don’t change your mind, it’s almost guaranteed that what shows up will be different than what you really meant.

I can say that from personal experience!

(By the way, I’ve never physically met the developers we’ve been working with recently; so in many ways, they are like the ‘unseen help’ that comes to your aid when you set a goal.)

So, create that well-documented ’spec’.  Or if you’re not a techie, maybe it’s easier to imagine that you have some kind of an angelic ‘foreman’ waiting for your blueprint.

Sure, I believe you could still achieve almost any kind of goal without a blueprint or a ’spec’; but the time, energy, and money lost from meandering and course-correcting can easily set you back so far that you may run out of steam entirely before the dream is realized. 

That’s the risk you take when you do not put in writing the things you need and want with detail.

Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that God and the Universe will ‘figure it all out’ for you.  In that case, you may end up meandering and course-correcting a lot more than necessary, because you’ve been given free agency to choose the good causes in which you choose to be anxiously engaged.  Heavenly ‘help’ is available to you as soon as you’re ready to enlist it.  But it won’t impose upon you.

Decide what you want, and then ask clearly and in faith for the assistance you need.

Don’t be paralyzed by waiting to know exactly what your goals ’should’ be.  If you think about what you want, and make a decision firmly and resolutely to go for it without hesitation, then if for some reason it’s wrong, you’ll find out soon enough and have sufficient momentum to make the proper course correction in time.

Now, join me in the 12-week FTMF home study program, where I’ll help you create a powerful goal statement and show you step-by-step how to make sure the ‘unseen help’ is activated on your behalf.  Our inventory is dwindling, and when this edition runs out, the new edition will NOT include my personal assistance at the mid-term.  So if you want my personal attention on YOUR goal, be sure to get one of the versions we have in stock before they’re all gone!

For more information, visit www.prosperyourfamily.com